Once in a while we hear someone say, “Monkey see, monkey do.” Parents especially know that children are good observers and imitators. Children become a mirror for their parents to reflect back their words and actions. In today’s gospel Jesus criticizes the Pharisees who had a teaching role for the Jewish people: “Do and observe all things whatsoever they tell you, but do not follow their example.”
Our actions speak loudly. That is why we must be mindful of our actions. We must do a self-examination regularly. We must also listen to what people “mirror” back to us about our speech and actions. This attentiveness and self-reflection will help us to grow in Christ-like virtues.
What helps you to be self-reflective about your behavior? Who is a good mirror for you?